Memoirs of a Tomb Raider

I fully believe that fear is a choice. Sometimes it can be really hard to feel as if you are in control of your own feelings, but when it comes to jealousy and fear of abandonment, you can either choose to use that as an excuse to stop you from doing what you want, or......choose to dig into those feelings, grow from them, and move on to a life that you want.  Life is all about choices. From what you eat for breakfast to driving down the right way on the street. You don't have to do it. You don't have to do anything.  Somethings have consequences that are not acceptable to you, but when you look at life as a series of choices, and stop saying " I have to go, because they are my family " or "I have to pay my bills" or " I have to go to work"................ remember  that isn't actually true. You don't have to go the family event unless you want to, and acting as if you "have to " only makes you a martyr to a life you don&#